You would figure that most people in this world have a sensor in their brain or attached to their lips. I just can't understand how one person can ruin and just fuck up ones day. It amazes me how words can really break a mans spirit if the words are correct and in the proper order.
For example: "I'm sorry but I am not interested because you're not my type. =)"
That sentence alone can break just about any one. I'm not saying everyone, just the few that have trouble finding relationships or someone to go on a date with them, like me. What is your "TYPE" then? Do I need to be rail thin or do I have to look athletic? Half the guys who look "Athletic" have never once played or been involved in sports but they do look the part. For the rail thin guys, well I don't want to but I will, a good portion of them are malnourished and may have an eating disorder (MAY HAVE).
It is a little funny how stupid little things can get to you so easily and with no effort. It's already bad enough that some of us have self imaging issues, issues with viewing one self in the mirror. I hate looking in a mirror and I hate seeing my reflection. In my own eyes, I have never felt that I have ever been perfect, but no body is. It is just what I would consider to be perfect for me. I know a lot of you guys out there are pretty self confident and have the looks that can turn heads and drop jaws. I, for one, have never felt that I have been one of those few. I come from a family that obesity can happen and become detrimental to our health. I am fortunate that I have not had any problems with my weight but over the years of drinking and eating late night has put some extra pounds on me. I know I can loose it. So I am trying.
Just be aware of what you say. Just like your mama taught you, "If you got nothing nice to say, don't say anything at all." And if you can't help yourself and have the need to say something, then say something positive to motivate that person.
This day is already never ending.......
Cheers!
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