Since I've been out as a Gay Male in San Diego, there has been understandings between the LGBT Community and the Straight Community as far as Bars and Clubs go. Well now that has become a understanding of the past....
Over the past couple of years, I've noticed a large increase of straight people in gay establishments in Hillcrest. At first it wasn't anything big, just straight people hanging out with their friends and them having a open mind and heart. Now that's usually not the case, Gay bars and clubs have now become the ideal "Hunting Grounds" for straight men to hit on straight women who come with their gay boys to play. Now most of the straight guys of course don't come alone because they're afraid of the "Big Scary Gay Man" that might hit on them. Please, your bad fashion on top of that horrible after shave odor is NOT cute. Now Straight Boys, when you see two girls sitting at a table talking, it's not an invitation for you guys to come over and hit on them. In fact it is pathetic when you approach a table uninvited and try to act suave to two Lesbian Women. When you stand there wondering why they are laughing and not really paying attention, it's your cue to just walk away and not try harder. While walking away spare the people around you and keep your homophobic remarks in your head. I know this sounds as though I don't like straight men nor want their business, that's not the case. The issues are the men that come in, who damn well know it's a gay bar and look for hot chicks and get all puffy when a gay man compliments him or tells him he's hot... Look "Bra" if you're looking for a piece of ass stay Downtown in the Gas Lamp District with all the testosterone filled assholes. We are out to have a good time with our friends and with those who respect us. Don't come to Hillcrest with Attitude or your Drama. We all wanna get laid.
Now for you Straight Women.... If you don't want to be hit on or want to get away from the creepers in Downtown, PB, and OB, don't bring your drama to our neighborhood hot spots. We realize you wanna come out and support your Gay Friends and the community, but sometimes your curiosity, bad decision making, and hunger for cock gets in the way, then you look like an ass because you are craving for what you were trying to get away from. the one straight guy in the bar isn't usually the sensitive guy or the man you want to wake up next to. Ease up on the drinks and restrain yourself woman otherwise there is an uproar from your friends to the security guards at the club because your friends are trying to keep you away from having a big fat cock in your vah-jay-jay. Then words maybe exchanged and people start to shoving. Then the guards are forced to throw the party out because the gay guys are gonna throw down with the straight guy, not fun trust me. Now for the Bachelorette parties, Guuuurl we love the fact you're getting married! We wish you the best and hope your wedding is perfect! Just one favor, don't be the annoying drunk group of girls. You have other bars to hit and staying in one spot for too long and getting trashed defeats the purpose of having your party, so move your ass, down your drinks and hit up the next bar. You can always come back if the other bars suck, just hit them up first before settling into just one.
Just a few more things ladies, don't bring your boyfriend to the bars if you know he isn't that comfortable. You may think he will be OK but he really isn't. It's written all over his face when he comes in. It's one thing when you have a few gay boyfriends he is use to seeing or hanging with, it's another situation when you throw him out there for the boys to look at. Oh and Yes, WE can smell fear.
This concludes my rant.... I love my straight couples and friends that I KNOW. I would never subject them to anything that would make them feel uncomfortable. If they come out with me that's their choice. But just remember be respectful to us and our little bars and we won't be bitchy Queens.
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